Dating Awards 2025: Bedroom Products
Want to Have Hotter Spicy Time This Year? Here Are Our Favorite Bedroom Products of 2025
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Sure, sex is great — but have you ever had sex where you added a toy to the mix?
From what we can tell, lots of guys haven’t. We get that — it can be awkward to take your first steps. By yourself? Some stigmatize male sex toys in ways they would never do for women’s toys. In a relationship? Maybe you see the toy as your competition, rather than your teammate.
As they say with learning processes, however, the second best time to start is right now. To help you get the most out of the wild and wacky world of products designed to optimize your bedroom experience, here are our picks for the 2025 AskMen Dating Awards, Bedroom Products edition:
Editor’s Note: Because it’s 2025 and AI slop is everywhere online, we wanted to let you know that generative AI and LLMs were not used in the production of the Dating Awards. This is 100% human-based labor, baby! And we were hands-on about it, too. We’ve even added comments directly from our testers to prove it.
Bedroom Toys
Best Male Toy
LELO F2S
When people say “sex toys,” many seem to think about women’s toys first and foremost, perhaps because toys for people with penises are seen as a bit more embarrassing or risqué by some. But pleasure is pleasure, regardless of what parts you have — and this year, we think the best pleasure-giving option for guys is the LELO F2S. Part stroker, part stamina trainer, it’s got 14 “pleasure settings,” an app-control option and high-quality construction that makes it feel so good you could just burst. If you will.
Our testers say: “This is a great toy! Very easy to use, the different speeds and patterns are fun, just the right size, easy to clean. It's very effective!”
Best Fellatio Toy
AutoblowAI Ultra
When it comes to sleeping with another human being, it’s all about give and take — but when it comes to sex toys, there’s nothing wrong with letting the toy do all the work. In this case, if you want a toy that’ll blow you away, or just want a toy that’ll blow you, period, try the AutoblowAI Ultra. Programmed to sync with your favorite adult videos, and move up and down on you like the robotic blowjob robot that it is, it’s low-key a high-tech miracle. While it’s a bit bulky and not for everyone, we don’t think any toy does what it does better.
Best Phallus Ring
MyHixel Ring
Rare is the person who truly prefers a soft, floppy dick. But the truth is that, for a whole host of reasons, erections can be hard to come by for lots of guys. Meds aren’t always the move, and combatting stress isn’t always straightforward. Thankfully, there’s cock rings! We love this set from MyHixel, which is crafted not into a circle but into a shape that specifically targets the anatomical points best suited to keep you hard. Plus, it comes in three different options so you can choose the right feel for you.
Best Prostate Toy
LELO Hugo 2
Gone are the days when guys were too tough to admit they liked a little backdoor pleasure. And thank goodness, because my-oh-my, can the right prostate toy rock your body. And from where we’re sitting, LELO’s Hugo 2 is absolutely the right prostate toy. Despite the fact that it’s a few years old now, we’re giving it this award for the third year in a row because frankly, no one’s beaten it yet. It’s perfectly shaped, easy to use solo or with a partner thanks to its remote control Bluetooth functionality, and powerful as hell. Enjoy.
Best Couples Toy
We-Vibe Sync O
Toys for me and toys for you are great, but what about… toys for us? It’s more than just a homophone for a defunct retail chain, it’s also a vast and expanding market. We still think We-Vibe’s Sync O is best in class for couples, as it allows for stimulation of both the penetrating partner and the penetrated partner simultaneously with a two-pronged approach that hits the clit with one prong and simultaneously hits the penis and G-spot with the other, so nobody’s left out. Brilliant.
Best Vibrator
We-Vibe Wand 2
Are you sleeping with someone with a vagina? Or multiple people with one? You may or may not be aware that they love stimulation there. The powers of vibratory pleasure are hardly new, but every year it seems, someone’s coming out with an even better one — like We-Vibe’s awesome Wand 2.
Our testers say: “I'm usually a Magic Wand aficionado but I was drawn to this wand because of two key features: the flexible wand head and the fact that it’s waterproof. I was also pleasantly surprised by the different intensity levels and modes with this wand; there's some fun variety in there and I had a great time exploring them. All in all, this wand now has a permanent place by my bed.”
Best Clit Toy
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
While vibrators have a long and storied history, airflow toys are a bit newer on the scene. But in the past decade, they’ve revolutionized the world of sex toys by pleasuring clitorises with powerful stimulation that doesn’t rub them raw. It’s a crowded field, but for our money, Satisfyer’s latest — the unwieldily named Pro 2 Generation 3 — is currently the best of the bunch, thanks to features like its powerful airflow, app-compatible usage and (!) 15-year warranty.
Best Clit/G-Spot Combo Toy
LELO Enigma Double Sonic
If your clit-having partner also craves G-spot stimulation, it would be selfish to say no, right? Well, be the opposite of selfish and give your partner not one, not two, but three types of stimulation with LELO’s powerful and highly rated Enigma Double Sonic. It pleasures not just the clit with airflow power and the G-spot with powerful vibrations, but also the under-appreciated A-spot, located higher up on the interior vaginal wall. Bit of a try-hard, honestly. And no, we’re not jealous. We can do lots of things it can’t.
Best Rose Toy
plusOne Rose Arouser
Rose toys jumped onto the scene a few years back and by now they seem to have established themselves as the 21st-century version of the “rabbit” toy: a cute, unassuming word that makes you think of springtime, and makes horny women think of orgasms. While lots of different brands have thrown their hats in the rose toy ring, this budget option from plusOne definitely punches above its weight with 10 different settings of airflow magic.
Best Travel-Friendly Toy
Biird Lumii
Small, inoffensive, cute-looking and fun. No, we’re not describing the perfect pet — we’re talking about the Biird Lumii. Admittedly it’s not really for penises, but our vagina-having testers really dug this toy, so we had to show it some love. Bring it on your next couples vacation, maybe.
Our testers say: “It really does the job. Not going to lie, this one very pleasantly surprised me. I think anyone who thinks they've reached their peakiest peaks with basic vibes should really give this toy a try.”
Best Distance Toy
Lovense Lush 4
The world is a gigantic place, and the idea that you’re always going to be at your lovers’ sides is old-fashioned. Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, a frequent traveler or just live on separate sides of the same city, sometimes you want a sex toy that can bridge that distance. Lush has had this segment of the market on lock for some time, and the latest model of their Lush toy is, predictably, a strong entry. As with its predecessors, it’s great for a host of different use cases, but particularly for making someone orgasm without ever touching them. Kinda hot, no?
Best Strap-On
Pipedream Products Body Dock Pro Suction Base Harness
If you’re into being pegged (hey guys who are into being pegged!) or you’re a trans guy (hey trans guys!) then you might be in the market for a great strap-on. While this one bucks the trend (it doesn’t actually come with a dildo), it does offer serious pleasure potential for both partners, thanks to its suction-based dock, which allows you to choose any kind or size of toy you like, and the vibrating G-spot plug, which pleasures the giver while they’re, you know, giving.
Our testers say: Super effective at securely holding a dick onto it, which honestly seems like the main issue with harnesses. The vibrating insertion plug works as advertised. Super effective.”
Best Sex Doll
Tantaly Britney 2.0
Look, we get it. These are the Dating Awards. Sex dolls don’t exactly scream, “I’m dating someone.” (Unless that someone is the doll itself.) But whether you’re in a long-distance relationship and craving something a little more like a person, you’re in a twosome that’s curious about threesomes, or you’re simply looking to experiment, if you want a sex doll, you want a Tantaly. Yes, we know from experience.
Our testers say: “Extremely realistic body, incredibly crafted. Extremely soft. The weight makes it feel real. Firm torso, but voluptuously squishy breasts and buttocks.”
Bedroom Experience-Enhancers
Best Water-Based Lube
SKYN Naturally Endless Lube
There’s a reason we pair the word “wet” with the word “wild” — the two concepts go so nicely together. Whatever kind of sex you’re having, it’s very rare that anyone says, “Oh, no, that was too lubricated.” Unfortunately, the inverse does happen. Protect yourself and your partner(s) from that fate by having SKYN’s Naturally Endless lube on hand. (Or on… you know… genitals.) Why? Well, it’s delightfully slippery, surprisingly long-lasting, and pairs well with toys of all kinds.
Our testers say: “I like that it has flax and okra in it, and the touch is less tacky than other natural products that are usually made with aloe.”
Best Silicone-Based Lube
#LubeLife Silky Premium Silicone Lubricant
Water-based lube that’s silicone-toy friendly is great, but for folks who want to go to pound town primarily with just their bodies, silicone lube offers some special advantages. Though it does have some drawbacks, its main strength is that it just lasts and lasts and lasts, meaning tantric romps and anal adventures don’t need to include constant re-upping. #LubeLife’s Silky Premium is our favorite option this year; the texture is genuinely great and it’s our new go-to on the nightstand.
Best Anal Lube
Pjur Analyse Me! Relaxing Lube
While some anal play requires water-based lubes (e.g. using silicone toys), for anal sex with a human body part, you’re probably going to want a silicone-based lube. But the real pro tip is to go for an anal-specific formulation. Pjur’s Analyse Me! isn’t just incredibly long-lasting, it’s also made with jojoba, an ingredient that naturally helps muscle relaxation — meaning bottoms can take more action with less pain. Now that’s a win-win.
Best PE Product
Promescent Delay Spray
Look, there’s no shame in finishing a little quickly. It’s not the end of the world, and if you know how to use your other body parts to maximum effect, you can keep the pleasure going long enough to bring your partner to climax (or several climaxes) (or until you’re ready for Round 2). However, if you’re tired of being a fast finisher, Promescent has a product for you. Their Delay Spray is specially formulated to absorb quickly and not transfer to your partner, meaning you get to last longer without their orifices feeling weird, too.
Best ED Product
FirmTech Tech Ring
For reasons we won’t get into here, this has been an oddly big year for erection-tracking data. Whether you’re weird about it or not, knowing what your body’s ability to achieve erection is like while you’re asleep is a huge boost for guys who are struggling with ED issues and for guys who just really crave some biodata. FirmTech’s Tech Ring does just that, allowing you to access info on your vascular health in ways your ancestors never would have thought possible.
Best Arousal-Enhancing Product
Bawdy Astro Blow
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Our testers say: “If you get dry mouth from giving head, this product is such an easy solution. It allows you to perform oral for much longer without having the issue of needing more spit to keep things moving fluidly. It also tastes great, kind of like mint chocolate.”
Best Condoms
Trojan Magnum
What’s that saying? “No glove, no love?” Despite decades of attempts to improve the world via sex education, lots of people still don’t appreciate the value of condoms. We know this because many STI rates are rising rather than falling. While lots of brands have cool technological features for their condoms, we’re in a classic mood, so we’re awarding this one to a classic condom. Magnums are high-quality, widely available, and inexpensive; they smell fine and they’ll fit most guys from average to bigger-than average. What’s not to like?
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